One of the special pleasures of travelling in Costa Rica is that no matter where you go, you will meet "Ticos"
going about their lives in traditional ways. Therefore, it's important that you know something about these people
and that you respect their culture. The more you know, the easier this can be.
Costa Ricans are accepting of the cultural transgressions of foreigners, but they are also very appreciative of
attempts toward understanding and respect. They will not tell you that you have made a "faux pas" - after all, you
are a guest - but when a succession of gaffes occur, they assume that it's natural for foreigners to be rude and
insensitive.
There are two general guidelines to help you in all situations. The first is simple, be observant and take your cues
from the behavior of those around you. The second is more difficult for Westerners: "slow down". We are constantly
in a hurry and tend to get right to the point. This is not the Costa Rican way. For Ticos, interpersonal relationships,
rapport, respect, and a smile are more important than the business at hand.
Always take things slowly, calmly, and in a friendly manner. Even major disagreements must be handled this way.
It can be tough, but if you remember to watch the interactions around you and practice slowing down a little,
and accepting their "reality", you'll get along better with your hosts, and you´ll enjoy yourself more.
Pura Vida!